NON-REFLECTION. THE WAY OF SLOW DECAY

Christ our life means the resurrection and growth of the Real Self.

You are blessed if you can engage in contemplation. Some are natural contemplatives. Others have made a discipline of it. Some never do it, not always because it is not in them but because they are glued to what they have chosen to believe - about life and about themselves since puberty. Humble reflection on the nature of ourselves benefits our character and our quality of life #.

SOUNDING GONGS
Some folks have no inner life. Unable to listen to themselves they seem unable to listen to anyone else. They fear being informed by those who know, because they might have to change their ideas. As insensitive as a stone they are a bore and often as ignorant as they are voluble. Such pillars of salt are the bane of many family gatherings and a misery to be with on church boards.

WORKERS NOT SONS
Everyone is capable of some reflection. Not to engage in reflection in some degree, is to render ourselves horse like or worse – a robot who has no life outside constant activity.

Years ago a woman in Caroline Jones’ book, The Search for Meaning’ observed that she lived a busy life and that when she got home she found that there was no one there. She was saying she had no inner life. Maybe. But this realisation was the start of her getting a real self.

BILL SMITH
Despite their apparent confidence, some folks have no real self. As Jesus said to Bill Smith, ‘What have you been doing?’ Bill listed his achievements at the end of which Jesus smiled and said, ‘Yes, but what progress have you made in being yourself?’

We will learn a lot with genuine humility. Especially if we shut up, listen and ask questions.

A REAL IDENTITY
If Christ is our life as distinct from Christianity being our life we will discover the real us and become who we actually are with a real identity. This is the identity that was seen by Christ before time began and which you have been pre-destined to enter if you are astute enough to live Christ instead of religion. Unwilling to do this we remain an economic or religious construct.

Perceptive people will recognise that the false self/true self syndrome is about real re-birth. Born again is embracing the union with God that is already yours. For Christians this is the Second part of life in which Christ is our life. The first part is religion our life.

NEW BIRTH
Being born again is not moralism. It’s not abandoning some bad deeds and embracing some good ones. It’s not selectively attaching to a denominational icon as a false grace. Born again is union with God. Born again is our growing life in union with God – the union that is already ours. Many Christians have not been born again and are still living in the separation of the fall; a separation that in many instances has been made into a religious culture – a religion in which some try to undo the separation between themselves and God that no longer exists.

SEEING
‘Jesus replied, ‘Very truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again’ John 3.3 NIV. Without a genuine re-birth it is difficult to see anything let alone the real self.

Religious piety is not real life or real holiness. It is never the real you and always a false self. That’s why pious people are so irritating to be with. The illusion the pious person lives is that she is honouring God and being ‘Christ-like’ by her pious living.’ Sadly this kind of piety is a caricature of holiness and a severe warping of the image of God in you. The One whole person approach is Christ our life.

# But not if our religious culture is a branch of Capitalism.
* The end result of the self-made-man culture is the caricature of a person that is a Donald Trump. Laud this kind of culture and you will get this kind of leaders – full of huff and puff and entirely empty.